I read their posts but still didn't understand why they called you out like that. Seems like the situation went a little like:
>Server owner returns after an(as I understand it) prolonged absence with our favorite mapper boy
>Garnetgaming users screeching autistically
Why? Most of the points you made were true and It confused me to see Duel, one of the players on this server I hold true respect for being right most of the time, arguing a point that really doesn't make sense.
I'm currently also doing a grad degree so I can somewhat understand what you were getting at in the post(can't imagine doing something as rigorous as an MD and running a server). Glad to hear you're trying to be more in tune with the server and challenging yourself to work harder for it. However, Stress snowballs really quickly(personal experience), especially when you gotta juggle stuff so try to not burn yourself out. Cause you make Garnetgaming what it is.
Went ahead and considered the following list(based off the posts you made in the referred to thread and some stuff that I kinda remember that may or may not be wrong) of what you had to sacrifice for this server, that is for the most part free to play:
The opportunity cost of you spending hours of your life learning skills that is not likely to benefit outside of Gmod or translate into IRL stuff(skills like Hammer, Lua, Server stuff, etc.)
The opportunity cost of you maintaining his donation portal
The cost of running your server(server host, website, TS, advertising?, etc)
The opportunity cost of you building a staff team up and maintaining team
Opportunity cost and Cost of designing new features per user(who may have not even put a single dollar into GG) suggestion(coding, new maps, etc.)
and this is just the stuff I came up in like 5 minutes.
Regardless of the kids, trust at least someone attempts to understand the depth of your labor. Anyways, welcome back Garnet its been awhile .
PS: if you do ever decide to shut down the community, I would be willing the purchase the community(forums, server, maps, dev stuff from over the years) if you're interesting on at least recouping some of your costs from over the years.